Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Finally! A sunny day in North Texas




Amazing what a bit of sunshine does for  your disposition! I woke up to sunshine, and it stayed all day. This evening it was positively balmy—80+ degrees—and we sat on the patio with wine and talked to our neighbor, who is self-quarantining in their guest house. He sat in his window, and we sat on the patio. A jolly visit, except of course I could only hear half of what he said, even with my hearing aids on.

And I had a terrific supper. Our neighbor Margaret, across the street, sent over a care package of corned beef, cabbage, carrots, and potatoes—they had a belated St. Patrick’s Day dinner. She has her hands full these days of quarantine with both her sons home, one a recent A&M graduate whose job the quarantine has put on hold and the other a college junior who has been sent home because of the pandemic. But Margaret appears to be coping well and cooked the best corned beef I have ever had—tender, flavorful, better than the local deli. Vegetables were also done just right.

Another bonus to the evening: Jacob came out to visit. We talked about the pandemic, of course, but also about neighborhoods. He recognizes the community spirit in our wonderful neighborhood but is bothered that everyone knows if he screws up. I tried to explain how much I value the community support of our close-knit neighborhood, but he kept saying he valued his privacy.


We also talked about school. Today he and his mom got his school-issued computer, but so far, he has no lesson plans to go with it. I asked what he was doing in English—actually called English Language Arts—and got the answer of basically nothing. I’m trying to be helpful here—after all, I have an advanced English degree—but it’s hard, because I don’t know where he is. He says he knows grammar and he knows about the beginning, middle, and end of an essay—I’d sure like to see an example. My suggestion that he read Catcher in the Rye has fallen on resistant ears. Apparently, literature is not part of the local ELA curriculum, and Jacob is not a natural reader, as I was and some of my children were. Yikes! I may tear my hair out, which is okay because it needs cutting anyway.

I find these days settling into a routine. I get up about eight and make myself tea, doing whatever else it takes to get my day going, from washing my hair to putting away dinner dishes. Pretty much I work during the morning, and it’s a blessing that I have plenty to keep me busy. Though I confess that catching up with the news takes a chunk out of my morning—I tell myself when the pandemic is over and trump is out of office, I won’t spend so much time on Facebook and related sites. Morning is also the time I pay bills and do whatever business-related tasks are on my desk. With time out for lunch, eaten at my desk, I work  until about two. And then I nap—sometimes for two hours, which sounds like more sleep than it is. Napping for me often unleashes my mind for creative work, and I come up with lots of ideas.

In the late afternoon I piddle at my desk with whatever has come up during the day and, with a fierce dedication, I watch the news. I am of mixed emotions about the fact that the local news now pre-empts the corona task force briefing. Today I was glad to see Dr. Fauci back but chagrined not to hear what he had to say.

Jordan comes out for happy hour, dinner follows, and I write my blog and read in the evening. It’s a comfortable routine, and so far, I’m okay with it. I don’t want to spend my life this way, but I have faith life will get back to normal. Not as soon as trump promises, but some day.

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