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Wednesday, May 03, 2023

Iceland, here they come—and thoughts on retirement life

 

Shipboard duck dinner

The tour report is not much today—pictures of yesterday’s dinner which consisted of two plates, one of duck and one of lobster. Both were “continental” size servings, though taken together they probably made a substantial meal. I could not tell how the lobster was fixed. Today’s dinner was lamb, Brussel sprouts, potato, vegetable quiche—much more substantial. Jordan reports that they are in the main crossing now, whatever that means.

I finally had to look at a map to see where my child is going. It was not easy to find—oh, I found lots of maps of Iceland, but few that showed its physical relation to other countries and some that did were in foreign languages. I have finally figured it out though—Iceland is quite a way north and to the west of England, closer to Greenland and kind of between the Scandinavian countries and Greenland. The ship now must be in the open water between England and Iceland. I’m not sure when they reach Reykjavik. As I looked, I was reminded of horrendous statistics about what Americans don’t know about world geography, and I plead guilty.

Closer to home, while Jordan was eating those European-style gourmet meals, I was fixing King Ranch casserole, a dish I’ve been making for well over fifty years and can do in my sleep. It’s not even Tex-Mex—the only claim to southwestern cuisine is the half can or however much Rotel you put in. But it’s good. I made it for two friends who came for supper because we couldn’t go out—due to temporary health problems, neither of them can lift my walker in and out of a car, so the only solution was to eat here. Usually with these two, Subie joins us, but she could not tonight. She got a good laugh, however, out of the fact that we couldn’t go without her. I said it may not be too long before I can never go out to dinner because all my friends have gotten too old to lift my walker!

We did have a good visit—Kathie brought great guac, and Carol cleaned the kitchen, put away the food, did everything but wash the dishes, which I accomplished in no time after they left. Like many of my friends, their lives revolve around the Trinity Terrace retirement community—Carol and her husband have just moved in, and while Kathie has a condo in nearby Arlington, her gentleman friend lives at TT and she dines there with him every night, or so I gathered.

Despite the fact that so many of my friends live there, I am still much happier in my cottage, though I often feel a bit defensive about it. Sometimes what I hear about retirement community life reminds me of a college dorm, and I never did like dorm life. I am also claustrophobic enough that I would not want to have to do elevators alone, and I surely would not want to have to take an elevator down to the dog park every time Sophie wanted to go out. She is in and out ten times a day, and it’s much easier just to open the French doors. These lovely spring days, the door is open all the time, with a free-hanging screen over it, and she can come and go as she pleases.

Tonight’s dinner demonstrates another aspect of life in the cottage that I truly value—my kitchen, and the fact that I cook. Residents at Trinity Terrace—and most other retirement communities—have to buy a meal plan and use a certain number of meal points in the community dining areas each month. No matter how much I’ve heard several say they intend to continue to cook, they end up eating in either the cafeteria or the upscale, white linen tablecloth dining room. I’ve eaten there several times and thoroughly enjoyed it—but I would soon tire of it if I ate there every night. Sort of like the pre-packaged meals Jamie so sweetly sent me—I want to do my own meal planning.

And so I did tonight—making a grocery list for the coronation dinner I’ll fix Saturday night—so far just Jean and me, but we’ll have smoked salmon and coronation chicken salad and green pea salad. And then I planned meals that Jordan might like her first couple of nights at home—chicken dishes but not casseroles! —and a dinner for the adventuresome eater who dines with me about once a month and will be here later in the week.

Plus tomorrow is the day for my weekly cooking column, so I considered recipes for that. Want to know about cacio e peppe and why it is considered the ultimate test of an Italian chef? Read about it tomorrow.

Tonight my desk is full of projects—a couple of articles to be pulled from the Corbitt manuscript, a guest blog to write, that memoir to think about. I’m a happy camper. But I also downloaded the newest in the Country Club Murders series, so that’s my project for what’s left of the evening. Color me happy. How about you? Where are you on the scale of happiness?

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Cookies, memories and an exciting look ahead


My Mothers Day flowers
courtesy the Frisco Alters


How did I miss it? Today was National Chocolate Chip Cookie Day, and several places offered free cookies. I am truly distressed that it passed me by and I got no free cookies. If you keep up with “national days” your head will spin. Every day has three or four things assigned to it----but chocolate chip cookies are so special. I guess now I have to bake the last ones left in my freezer, a product of one of Jacob’s school campaigns.

Looking backward, today I reviewed my blogs from two years ago, with an eye to a possible new project. I was astounded to read my accounts of my broken ankle, the pain I was in, the depression I felt. It was eye-opening and made me so grateful for my recovery. And I hadn’t yet gotten to the really bad parts. Don’t know if and when I will. But it’s so instructive to look back at ourselves from a different emotional place.

There were some wonderful memories in those blogs too—the Mothers’ Day card Jacob gave his mom that said, “I love you the yellowest”; all the many things Jordan did for me—I hope her caretaking chores are less now; the week that Colin came and took Jacob and me to Tomball to give Jordan a break—we laughed, explored restaurants, sat by the lake and sipped wine at night, and generally had a wonderful time.

I tried to be upbeat in those days, but I was astounded at how many days I didn’t feel well, hurt too much to walk, really wasn’t keeping up with the house and daily chores. Jordan cooked most of my meals and finally moved in with me because she didn’t trust me alone at night. I don’t quite know how to sing her praises—all she gave up, the effort to run two homes at once.

Jacob was nine in those blog posts—an entirely different kid than the “grown-up” almost-twelve he is now. All the sweetness, none of the angst. There were nights when he and Sophie both slept in my bed with me. I think nostalgically I miss those nights; in practical reality, not so much.

I may not have gotten much actual work done this morning, but it sure was eye-opening and instructive, and made me grateful for the physical and mental health I enjoy today.

A funny bonus: recently I ran across a recipe I wanted to try for the family Reading the old blogs, I realized I had tried it two years ago and found it good but not quite what I expected. It was for a whole roast chicken—what I did two years ago was chicken thighs. Tonight, I defrosted a boneless thigh and did it for myself. Again, good but not great.

Looking ahead: Jordan, my personal travel counselor, came home with the brochure and itinerary for our Great Lakes Cruise in August. It looks wonderful, though I worry that I will be able to do the excursions or that my inability to walk will handicap Jordan in her enjoyment of those outings. But who wouldn’t want to go to Sault Ste. Marie, or Mackinac Island, or Muskegon/Holland where I have friends.

Jordan and I have already talked about packing and planning. She is so efficient about all that. It’s a relief to put myself in her hands. Last night we ordered the kind of visor hat she thinks I’ll need, the water bottle, and I can’t remember what else, but whoosh! I spent $100 at Amazon. Still I am so excited about this trip. Lovely to have something to look forward to so much.