Showing posts with label #seasons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #seasons. Show all posts

Sunday, October 02, 2022

It’s really Fall


Sophie tring to tell me something.

North Texas has two really wonderful seasons—Spring and Fall. Sometimes they fall at odd times of the year, and sometimes they are so fleeting you barely know they’ve been here. They rarely last as long as you wish they would. But the last couple of days have been Fall at its best—wonderful sunny days, not too hot but just pleasant, and evenings with just a touch of cool that hints gently at what’s to come. No strong hint that we’re predicted to have a winter as strong as the last one.

I’ve been scared off the patio by dire warnings of mosquitoes. Those pesky things don’t bother me much, but I have friends who are tremendously attractive to the biting bugs, and so I took their word for it and stayed behind the screens. But last night was so pretty, Jean and I sat out on the patio for a glass of wine. It was especially pleasant because both Christian and Jacob wandered by and visited briefly. And not one mosquito bite. I fixed lamb burgers and three-bean salad for supper, only you cannot find wax beans in the store any more. On Amazon, you can buy three cans for $17—better than a dollar a can, which seems high to me. So my three-bean salad really only has two beans—green and kidney. But gosh it was good. Jean loves lamb but had never had a lamb burger before, so that was fun.

Tonight, Jordan is in Austin, so Christian and I met Subie and Phil on the patio at Maria’s Mexican Kitchen. Again, it was absolutely beautiful—pleasant temperature, lovely to be outdoors, sitting in the shade so the bright evening sun was blocked (at the cottage at this time of year, the setting sun bores into the door and lands right in my eyes, whether I’m at my desk or in the kitchen). There’s nothing like friendship and a glass of wine outdoors on a pleasant evening.

But evenings and mornings have grown cool. Last night it was down to the 50s, and for several days I have put a sweatshirt cardigan around my shoulders at my desk in the early morning and once the sun goes down in the evening. Tonight, as we lingered on the patio at the restaurant, I felt the first bit of chill, and by now, home and at my desk, I closed the door because it was too cool. I’ll leave the a/c off when I go to bed, though I’m liable to wake in the early morning and turn on the bedroom unit. Texas has such mild seasons, not the dramatic changes I was used to in Chicago and even Missouri, so these hints of changing seasons are welcome. I never did complain much about the summer heat, awful as it was, but I will no doubt soon be complaining about cold. The first really chilly spell usually happens in early October. Tonight will be in the 50s again, but the days are predicted to stay in the 80s. Couldn’t ask for more—except some much-needed rain.

I came home tonight to a desperate dog. Yes, she wanted to go out, and she did that briefly but then she was back in the cottage, barking furiously at me. I gave her a small treat which only mollified her briefly. She has various barks, and this tonight was so earnest, so expressive I was baffled. She was trying hard to tell me something, and I wasn’t getting it. She ignored the open door and the fresh water I had just given her. She ignored me when I told her she’d had her treats and was done.

It suddenly dawned on me: she is used to dinner being in two courses—how sophisticated of her. She gets the wet food she’s wild about, followed by a modest helping of dry kibble (don’t ask—how this came about is a long story and involves a mighty case of bronchitis). Sometimes she ignores the kibble, sometimes she eats it an hour or so later. But I realized tonight I’d fed her the wet food, and she hadn’t made a big deal of wanting the dry, so I forgot it. Now, hours later, she as trying to tell me she hadn’t had the second course of her dinner. Once I gave her kibble, she was perfectly content. No more barking.

I sure wish I spoke dog.

Thursday, August 20, 2015

That breath of Fall



My family in Tomball sent me this lovely wreath for my front door as a belated birthday present (well, I know daughter-in-law Lisa was the picker and sender). I love the gorgeous colors and will follow my neighbor’s advice to coat it with hair spray to preserve it. It’s perfect for fall, and it was fitting that I hung it on this day when we had a lovely, if brief, touch of fall. High of 75, with not as much rain as we’d like, but some. It sort of depended on where you were standing—if you were in just the right spot, you got rain, at least a few drops.

Facebook is now flooded with nostalgic messages and pictures about Fall, People are longing for turning leaves, crisp mornings, October’s bright blue skies (remember that poem from grade school?) But wait! Are these the same people who couldn’t wait for summer—vacation and beaches and sunny, lazy days?

I too am guilty of wishing my life away. I, who admittedly worry about time’s winged chariot because I’ve had such a rich and full life and am still enjoying it so much that I look ahead with a bit of fear. I don’t want to be an invalid, I don’t want to lose my ability to write and work, and I don’t want to leave my children and grandchildren. I am not endowed with the surety of faith nor the tranquility of Jimmy Carter who today announced the metastasis of his cancer, which is apparently a melanoma. I wish him all kinds of good, I pray for him, and I admire his wonderful spirit. But I also envy his calm acceptance of whatever life brings him next. (I was somewhat comforted that he said Rosalynn was not quite as accepting as he is.)

I’m always in a hurry, wanting to get this done or that. And I’m always looking forward to some event—wishing it was Saturday so I could have dinner with my family or Labor Day so I could host a neighborhood potluck or some other event. Shoot! Soon I’ll be wishing for Christmas. And then I chide myself for not living in the moment, not stopping to smell the roses. I’m great at anticipation, not so good at savoring the present. But I’m working on it.