Showing posts with label #online church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #online church. Show all posts

Sunday, April 12, 2020

In its own way, a glorious Easter




Easter happy hour on the patio
If you can get past to comparisons to “how it should be,” this was really a glorious Easter, at least here in North Texas. Rolling thunder woke me sometime in the early morning, and I got up to release Sophie from her crate because I knew she be frightened and want to be close to me. But by the time I got up for good, it was a glorious sunny day, the kind of day you think Easter should be.

My strongest memory of Easter in the Chicago of my childhood has to do with heavy winter coats. I would get a fancy Easter dress, often organdy or some sheer fabric, with petticoats beneath—and then the weather would force me to top it with my drab, old winter coat. No such problems here.

Another of my earliest memories is the anthem we learned in choir: One Early Easter Morning. This morning, when I turned on my computer, the first thing I saw was an email from my lifelong dear friend Barbara. Nothing except the first lines of that anthem. Brought happy tears of memory to my eyes.

Jordan, Jacob, and I “went” to eleven o’clock church online, while Christian attended inside the house. The music was glorious—brass, timpani, wind—and a vocal quartet that were superb. The message, inspiring and nicely linking the resurrection to the difficult period we now find ourselves in. I am so grateful to my church as the staff continues to explore ways to keep us together and create meaningful worship in the midst of physical distancing.

Jordan dressed for church. Unfortunately, neither Jacob nor I did. And I didn’t realize that we were all having brunch together. Just as I finished my tuna and cottage cheese, there they came, bearing bacon and eggs and potatoes. We had a grand time, mostly talking with Jacob about colleges because he’s suddenly decided, after years of devotion, he may not want to go to Baylor.

A nap for me, while the Burtons went to do a birthday drive-by for a good friend. I am amused that these have become common across the nation. The first I heard of—for the 14th birthday of a friend’s daughter—seemed original to me, but I soon learned it is a “thing.” Just as I woke from my nap, thunder was rumbling again but it did little more than make Sophie nervous.

Our Easter table
with Jordan's cake
Easter dinner
After that the focus was on dinner which, as always, was late. I made scalloped potatoes—I have always had trouble getting them right, but I nailed it this time. I used to try for Colin, because he loved them, but they were always mushy. Christian cooked a brisket, following directions I remembered from my Jewish mother-in-law—it was delicious, though he wasn’t happy with the gravy. Jordan made deviled eggs, cucumber salad, and a cake. And set an elegant table on my coffee table. It was al delicious, and we lingered over Jordan’s cake—a memory from her childhood: yellow cake with chocolate frosting.

So different from other Easter tables with lots of family and friends, but we are together and healthy and beyond grateful. I come away from this holiest of days with the sure knowledge that we will get through this.

Tonight, the wind is blowing, and the temperature has dropped dramatically. I’ve heard predictions as low as the thirties in the night. Crazy weather.


Sunday, March 22, 2020

Online church on a dreary Sunday




With the combination of social isolation and dreary weather, I’m realizing how much weather affects my mood. Kind of down today, because it’s been a dull, rainy day—not particularly chilly but not warm and comfy either.

I thought it would be lovely if we went to church as a family this morning, even in our pajamas. I guess I had a vision of us gathered around my computer screen, devoutly praying, listening intently to the sermon. Didn’t quite work out that way. Jordan did not sleep well—until eight o’clock in the morning, and so was asleep. Christian pulled up Facebook on the big TV in the back room—I have no idea how to do that—but kept getting the end of the nine o’clock service, so he came out to ask me how to get the start of the eleven o’clock. Right in the middle of Todd Prickett’s amazing rendition of the Our Father. Now I have to go back and listen to that again.

Long story short, I pretty much went to church by myself, although Jordan came out about halfway through and watched the rest. The church has changed its website, and I couldn’t figure how to get to live streaming, so I pulled it up on Facebook. I don’t think it was Facebook—the problem is on the church’s end and has something that I don’t understand at all to do with band width, but the visual freezes for brief periods and then the audio disappears, so lovely as the service was, it was sort of disjointed. Sometimes when the video freezes, it captures people in the most unflattering poses—like Russ Peterman with his eyes at half-mast this morning.

At the end, there were dramatic and beautiful shots of the interior of our sanctuary. We are so privileged to worship is such a beautiful setting.

At the suggestion of Dr. Peterman, Jordan took a picture of our worship site—my desk. I am not sharing that. Next week, before church, I will “landscape” my desk and take the picture myself from a better angle.

I laughed at a childhood friend in Michigan who posted that she had showered and dressed to go to online church. She’s married to a retired Episcopalian priest, so I guess that makes a difference. I was in a T-shirt and sweats.

The City of Dallas tonight has issued a shelter-in-place order, which is pretty much what we’ve been doing, but I know a whole lot of the world hasn’t. I’m waiting for a similar order for Fort Worth—it can’t come too soon. Christian still has to go to work which, to me, is a double-edged sword—because he has an autoimmune disease, he shouldn’t be exposed, and I don’t want him to bring the virus home to the rest of us. I do think Jordan practically hoses anyone down before they come in the house.

I have now been in the cottage eleven days without seeing anyone but family. Yes, I get a little down sometimes, but generally I’m content. I’ve spent several days working on the neighborhood newsletter—for some reason information came to me in a much more scattered manner, and it was hard to pull together. But today I’ve proofread it and turned my attention back to my next project, a food-oriented book. Made some notes and read a bit in a book on the food revolution of the Fifties—think TV dinners.

As I write tonight, I’m waiting for a gourmet dinner from  Christian—a Mexican chicken casserole of some kind. Getting hungry.