Showing posts with label #good friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #good friends. Show all posts

Friday, March 18, 2022

Sophie has a new friend

 


Pierre, looking very dignified

Sophie had a gentleman caller tonight, and I’m afraid she’s smitten. His name is Pierre, but no, he’s not a Frenchman. He an Aussiedoodle. He's a bit younger than she—almost a year compared to her ten years. In essence, he's a big, goofy teenager and, as his owner says, sometimes quite clumsy. And he’s about half again as large as Sophie is and probably still growing a bit. But he’s a gentleman. And Sophie did not try to boss him or pull her diva act. They played, chased, and had a grand time.

Pierre belongs to Christian’s college friend, Gary, and they hail from Dallas. Gary may be old friends with Jordan and Christian, but he and I are bonded by a love of dogs, a love of retro food—he likes my chicken Divan and tuna casserole, and a passion for liberal politics. It’s a nice friendship.

Tonight was Jordan’s birthday dinner plus the Chicken Divan I’d been promising Gary. The birthday part was great—ten people, salmon spread, meatballs, a green salad, a fruit salad, and tiny ice cream cones. But the main dish, the chicken I’d cooked for Gary, was a disappointment, at least to me though others liked it. I think the problem was doubling the recipe to serve twelve instead of six. Instead of meat bathed in a rich sauce, we got broccoli in sauce (almost like cheese broccoli soup) and chicken without much sauce. Gary’s suggestion, which I like, is to do it next time with thighs—or I have done it with rotisserie chicken and that might be the answer. But now I have to cook it again to prove that I can do it. But a single recipe.

I had thought I had a good lesson in quantity cooking this morning. I sauteed thirteen pieces of sliced chicken breast—a whole lot easier than pounding halves. Then I cooked three large packages of broccoli. Then I made the sauce. In the late afternoon, I put all three together, and apparently that’s where it went amuck. Except maybe it stayed in the oven too long? Anyway I was a bit disappointed.

Next time, Gary gets Tuna Florentine, and we will not have any other guests, though tonight’s was a jolly gathering of a very few of Jordan’s good friends, my friend Jean, Gary, Jordan, Christian, and me. All people I’m fond of, and the conversation was lively.

Like yesterday, it was another day when I had not given myself another chore except to cook the Chicken Divan—and I could snatch moments at my computer, while the various components were cooking. Tonight, though the dishes are all done and put away and the kitchen is clean, I cannot say I have written a word until this blog. That’s been a thread on a blog I follow: is writing work or pleasure? I finally decided that for me the two aspects are so intertwined I can’t separate them. Writing is what I do, it’s my job, and some days it’s drudgery; but some days it is a pure joy, and I’m not sure how to distinguish the two. Maybe I don’t have to.

I haven’t written much this past week and won’t in the coming week, at least at first. This week, it’s been medical appointments and cooking. I’m glad to say the medical appointments have all come out well, with small, minor concerns that we’ll overlook in a woman of my age. And until tonight the cooking came out well—yesterday’s corned beef dinner and the salmon spread served tonight more than saved my reputation. I would love to get back to writing Monday morning, but alas! I have an eye appointment Monday, and—dread! —a root canal Tuesday morning. After that, it’s back to work, but I think I will have to re-read the work-in-progress (Finding Florence, which was until recently, Irene Keeps a Secret). I need to reassess the whole thing.

A note about corned beef: did you know they don’t eat corned beef in Ireland? Or New England. It’s called a boiled beef dinner, with boiled brisket, cabbage, potatoes, onions, and carrots. That doesn’t work for me for a couple of reasons: if I splurge and buy a brisket, I want it cooked long and slow on the grill or in the oven. If I want a boiled dinner, I want the seasonings of corned beef (plus the pickling spices, vinegar, salt and pepper and sugar and, most importantly, ale that I added to it). The corned beef dinner is thought to be a blending of kosher and Irish traditions, which would logically trace back to the days of immigrants in the tenements of New York. A tidbit of history you may not care about, but I find fascinating.

Slainté!


Friday, April 22, 2016

On becoming a recluse...and cooking for others

I said to a friend tonight that I thought I was increasingly becoming a recluse. He asked if I liked to have people in my home, and I enthusiastically answered yes. Did I like being alone? No, sometimes I get bored. “Then you’re not a recluse,” he intoned.

So my problem is not being a recluse but the anxiety/mobility that makes it difficult for me to leave my house—been there, done that some forty years ago so I know I can overcome it again.
Meanwhile my reclusiveness was interrupted tonight by Subie and Phil, good friends just back from a long trip to Argentina. They called to ask if they could come for wine. Of course they could. Then Jordan and Jacob arrived, followed by Christian with much-needed dog food, and finally David who doesn’t come for visits often enough. David was Jordan’s first boyfriend, is now a close friend of both Christian and Jordan, and in his SuperDave cape takes Jacob to TCU ball games. He’s family around here.

I tried to get Subie and Phil to stay for supper but they wouldn’t, so the five of us ate on the deck. I fixed a super chicken dish I think I found in a NYTimes cooking column: spray a roasting pan with oil of some kind, cover the bottom with onion slices and sliced shallots, put chicken thighs on top. Season with salt and pepper and slide into a hot oven (I did 450 and it still took about an hour and a half). Layer croutons in a serving dish and arrange chicken on top and dump the roasting pan on top of it all. My only complaint--the croutons didn’t become as soggy as I expected. I served it with Christians’ green beans—cook some bacon and retain the grease, drain bacon and crumble. Dump green beans into grease, douse liberally with cider vinegar and, when serving, crumble in the bacon. That and one of Jordan’s good blue cheese salads was dinner. So good.


High old time of visiting and friends. Tomorrow I work. And maybe I won't be a recluse

Saturday, April 09, 2016

Nothing extraordinary, nothing catastrophic

 Just an ordinary day. I didn’t blog last night because I was worn out and had little to say. Up early to meet Greg, who tends my garden—he moved indoor plants outdoors and watered everything well. I’ve been remiss. Now forbidden to climb on even small stools, I can’t reach the second shelf of my greenhouse windows and though Jordan has done her best, the plants have suffered—I think the lavender is beyond recall.

Then contractors Lewis and Jim appeared and disappeared—Greg looked all over the property for them. Turns out they were behind the cottage looking for survey stakes, which they found. The three had a pow-wow about what would be torn up in the back yard for remodeling.

Went to two grocery stores. Now that’s enough to wear a woman out! And last night went to a lovely gathering of friends at the nearby Wine Haus to celebrate Jaimie Smith’s promotion to director of curriculum for the Birdville School District. Jordan’s out of town, but Christian escorted me and Jacob, who had been to a TCU tennis game, joined us later. Delightful evening on the patio-and I discovered a new favorite—eggplant and goat cheese pizza (and I’m not a pizza eater!).

Today I had a delightful visitor—Kenneth Jones who had grown up in this house. We walked through the house and he told me how things used to be, including a pass-through where the milkman left milk and butter. Then we sat and visited, and he told me about the people who lived in the neighborhood, some of whom I knew. Really fun, and I will write it up for the neighborhood newsletter, which I just happen to edit.

Tonight my friend Mary V. came for supper, and I fixed mushroom stroganoff—really good, but I have enough to feed Coxie’s Army. I cook in brief periods—15-30 minutes does my back in and I have to sit; then I can go back and do more. Same for cleaning up the kitchen. But I am so delighted to be cooking.

So now, once again, I’m tired and headed for bed—chores to do tomorrow like washing clothes. Now what else was I going to do? I’ll think of it.

Sweet dreams, everyone.