Showing posts with label #dog recovery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #dog recovery. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 20, 2024

Cooking for show and caring for Sophie


The contemporary compilation of selected recipes by Helen Corbitt.


Those two things have occupied my thoughts and much of my time the last two days. Sophie first.

I know very well that people do not go home from the hospital and instantly pick up the thread of their active lives. There’s an adjustment or recovery period. So why should it be any different for dogs? I’ve had one experience with this just over a year ago when Sophie came home too soon and had to return to the clinic for a few days. Monday night I thought we were in for something similar. She wasn’t much interested in eating, sort of moped around the house, not interested in going out. I was tiptoeing around the cottage and watching her out of the side of my eye. I decided it was best to give her occasional bits of affection but pretty much leave her alone to gather herself. Tuesday morning wasn’t much better, although she did eat about half her breakfast. I was a failure at getting her medications into her—that dog can lick around a pill like nothing you’ve ever seen. Hide it in cheese? Forget it. I wouldn’t have called her lethargic but perhaps passive.

Tuesday afternoon I heard one sharp bark from her, which was the first sound, and by evening, when Mary D. came for supper, Soph was more interested in what was going on. She ate her supper and asked for her dessert—canned green beans, which the vet said to give her sparingly. And then demanded her little doggie treats. We were back on familiar ground.

Today I feel we’ve really made progress—she’s eating, and by feeding her in small bits, I managed to hide a half pill in each bit and got all three down her. Christian tried to hide one in cheese, which only made her suspicious of cheese when I tried to give her a piece mid-day. Same with pill pockets—I tried to hide her tiny noon pill in one and give it to her—she clamped her mouth shut, so I left it on the floor, and she ate it, pill and all. Am I winning this war by any chance? She still lies around the cottage a lot, but hey! She did that before all this. She’s an elderly dog.

I so appreciate the concern for her. Fun to be dining out tonight with a friend and have another friend stop by the table—her first question was, “How’s Sophie?” and then a conversation about my Sophie and another dog named Sophie, belonging to a mutual friend, ensued. I had dinner with Carol Roark at Lucile’s, a restaurant both she and I like (and some of our friends don’t)—we find it’s comfort food. So tonight we split a chicken-fried steak, and we caught up on things personal and political. Been too long since we visited. As on every one of my ventures into the outside world, now that I’m home so much, I saw new buildings, things I didn’t recognize. I’m always saying, “When did they build that?” But it was fun to get out.

My other adventure today was to be on a Zoom program with Mary D. She teaches cooking classes for the Silver Frogs, TCU’s flourishing senior noncredit program. She came up with the idea of a two-part class on Helen Corbitt—she would cook, and I would fill in with background on Corbitt, her career, and her years at Neiman Marcus. It was fun, though it would have been smoother if we’d done a dry run before, and Mary had trouble with her power point program. I thought I’d used almost all my Corbitt stories, which left me worried about what I’d talk about in the next session a week from today. But since then, I’ve had some good thoughts.

It occurs to me that my Food of the Fifties interest could be such a program—I’d begin by asking folks if they eat meatloaf? Salmon patties? Squash casserole? And then talk about what a dramatic decade of change the Fifties was in America’s food history. Which would segue into recipes from that cookbook I’m working on, which is turning out to be a tribute to my mom. Lots of her good recipes. I’m not sure where to go with that thought.

So it’s been a satisfying, good day, and I’m sleepy. Night y’all!

Monday, March 18, 2024

Sophie’s home—and I am grappling with deep thoughts

 

Sophie was comfortably asleep, so no picture of her at home tonight.
This is my so-so corned beef supper. Horseradish sauce was good. Is that a travesty?

Sophie’s home! Dr. Burney called early this morning to say he was pleased with her lab results and behavior this weekend (I think that means among other things that she ate, peed, and pooped) and she could come home today. Therein ensued confusion. Jordan and Christian had been out late last night—shoot! They were out all day! So I thought they would sleep late. About nine, Christian let Crickett out, so I knew he would follow to let her back in, and I captured him for a talk. It was confusing at best. Jacob was supposed to get a ride to school, so we could have his car—he didn’t do that, although he did put my transport chair out of his van (oh, oops! I’m not supposed to call it a van). Christian had a morning appointment but said there was no way he could put himself, Jordan, me, my chair, and Sophie in his car. So he and Jordan went without me in the early afternoon, which was fine.

Once again, I spent the morning in suspended animation, not knowing how the day would work out. I didn’t change into street clothes because I had a feeling I wouldn’t be going with them to get Soph. About noon I decided I’d proceed with my day—had lunch, did the dishes, prepped the dinner—more about that later—and took a nap. Sophie came home in the middle of my nap, so we had a good visit/loving session. But then I let her wander about and re-orient herself, which is what she’s done the rest of the day. She fell into old habits quickly—watching me cook from the doorway between kitchen and bedroom, sleeping under the coffee table by the couch, lounging on the patio, though she didn’t do much of that because it’s chilly tonight and predicted to be in the thirties.

When I was waiting to see how the day would work out, I read emails, answered a few, did some work on the monthly newsletter but didn’t really put my full weight down. I am reminded of the ninety-year-old woman who went on her first airplane ride. Asked about it afterward, she said, “It was okay, but I never dd put my full weight down.” An aside: I think putting our full weight down is a problem for many women today. But back to my morning, I didn’t do much productive. Then I read an article for women about the third stage of life and how we should put society’s norms, those “should” and “should nots” behind us and do what felt comfortable to us. The gist of it was you don’t have to feel productive every day. Do what you want, what makes you happy. (I can hear my father, with his strong work ethic, rolling in his grave). I think I’ve got that one, I realize that I work because I want to, not because society demands it and, fortunately, not because I have to.

But Sophie presents another dilemma. Her care this time and a year ago when she had her first diabetic crisis was horribly, astronomically expensive. I know many people would frown on the folly of spending that much to keep a dog alive (I joked the first episode was the trip to Europe that I never took, so this week was the second European trip, an extended stay). And that’s society’s norm, the standard from which my guilt springs. But the other side is that she has been my companion for thirteen years. She is a living, breathing soul who trusts me implicitly to take care of her. I could never look at her and say, “Sorry. You’re too expensive.” And condemn her to euthanasia. Oh, if I lived on the edge I would probably surrender her to a rescue society in hopes they would find a sugar daddy to underwrite her treatment. But the blessed truth is I have the money. It’s my choice to spend it on her. Yes, there are starving children through the world, and yes, there are a lot of progressive candidates I would like to support with more, but the other truth is that Soph looks at me with those liquid eyes and as long as she is pain-free and happy, I will keep her alive. It’s a bigger dilemma than the productivity one.

At my age, I would hope to be beyond worrying about what society thinks. And I almost am—but not quite.

As for the dinner I prepped—it was to be our belated St. Patrick’s day dinner. I got a fairly expensive corned beef because it was uncured (no artificial preservatives), and I roasted it because I’d read a lot online that said roasting was the only way to go. I served champ with it (mashed potatoes with lots of butter and green onion) and Christian fixed shredded Brussel sprouts, which may have been the best part of the dinner. The corned beef was tough though the flavor was great, and the champ was just okay, nothing remarkable. Not my finest dinner. Sorry, Paddy!

It’s never too late for a good Irish blessing:

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face

May the rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again
May you keep safe
In the gentle loving arms of God