Showing posts with label #aphorism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #aphorism. Show all posts

Thursday, July 05, 2018

Red at night….


Did your mom teach you that old verse like my mom did? “Red at night/Sailors delight/Red in the morning/Sailors take warning.” The sky is not red tonight but a faintly pink color that is a bit eerie. Perhaps if there weren’t buildings and trees in the way, I could see a glorious pink-and-gold sunset. Or perhaps it is that strange pre-storm color that the sky sometimes gets. We supposedly have a chance of a storm later tonight.

Nothing to blog about tonight. It’s been a work day, with my nose at the computer most of the day, and now I’m ready to settle down with that Anne Hillerman novel I’m reading. A small online group I belong to has had a fascinating discussion of Anne H.’s attempts to carry on her father’s literary legacy and series of mysteries set in the Four Corners area of New Mexico, mostly in Navajo country.

My naïve thought that she was doing a good job and seemed to understand Navajo culture in a way that few outsiders do was brought up short by opinions that her books were not as interesting, and she really didn’t know the culture. Until someone pointed out she was writing from the feminine point of view, and as is true of many of cultures, the female experience is very different from the male. I had initially praised her for bringing Bernadette (Bernie) Manuelito, a minor character in her father’s books, to center stage.

The group consensus finally settled on the fact that her writing from the female point of view brings a new dimension to the series and that she understands the culture well enough to differentiate between the gender experiences. I think I pretty much agree, but the discussion carried me into the book, Cave of the Bones, with a whole new critical eye. So far, I’m enjoying it.

Jordan invited me in for Mexican casserole tonight, but my mind was set on scrambled eggs with chopped scallion, tomato, and some of the smoked salmon I have in the fridge. When Jordan was out watering, she got to talking to the neighbor behind me, and somehow the result was that I got fresh eggs for my supper. So good!

I do enjoy watching the chickens, though the only place I can see them is out my bathroom window. Today one was on the roof of their pen. I’ve watched them fly up to perch on a bar inside the pen but never seen one up that high before. They free range a lot, whenever the family is home to watch them. There were brown eggs in the ones I got tonight which confirms, to me, that gold or brown hens lay brown eggs. Never thought I’d be so fascinated by chickens.

Too dark to watch chickens now, so I’m going back to my book. Pray for rain, y’all.














Friday, November 03, 2017

Army desertion, sexual harassment—and thank goodness for family.


One of my mom’s favorite sayings was, “Never judge a man until you’ve walked a mile in his moccasins.” She even had it framed, written in what was supposed to be a Native American style decorated with, yeah, moccasins, feathers, etc. It strikes me as particularly appropriate today when a military court has handed down a sentence for Bowe Bergdahl.

The sitting (or screaming) president was quick to yell that anything short of life in prison was a disgrace to our military. Yep, he who got five deferments for bone spurs that kept him out of Vietnam but apparently not off the golf course.

I am not condoning what Bergdahl did, nor am I even buying that defense story about his deprived childhood. If everyone in this country who had a deprived childhood acted out, we would be in a sorry mess. But I will suggest that none of us know how we’d behave when our life is in danger—unless we’ve been there. Personally, I’m occasionally given to panic attacks that cause me to act irrationally, and I doubt I’d have ever been good in the military. Who knows except Bergdahl what really happened and why.

I think it is fitting that he was tried and sentenced by a military court. We should respect their considered conclusions and judgement and move on with our own lives. I find it less seemly that he is judged by a draft dodger. And don’t think that Bergdahl has or is getting off scot-free. He paid a dear price during his years of captivity, and he is now a branded man in this country. He has made clear on the stand the daily guilt and torment he lives with. My prayer for him is that he can find someone to love him and can build a life, but I know it will be tough. We should all leave him alone to gather what strength he can. From now on, he’s not our business.

Do you want to walk a mile in those moccasins? If not, please stop trying him all over again on Facebook.

I’m struck by Facebook mentality tonight anyway, as more and more men are accused of harassing women and other men. It’s like an epidemic that’s sweeping the nation. I’m afraid harassment has indeed reached epidemic proportions in our country, but I am also afraid there’s a wannabe factor to this rash of accusation. It will take years and dollars to sort out the truth, and some innocent people may be damaged.

And nobody goes after the Number One Groper, the admitted sexual predator. What a world we live in.

As I write about these gloomy subjects, I am waiting for my Austin daughter, her husband, and two sons. We’ll go to supper at Pacific Table, and tomorrow we’ll do some shopping—the TCU Bookstore, Central Market—and then they, with the Burtons, will spend a good portion of the day tailgating and at the game. Megan, a loyal graduate, will cheer for TCU and so will eleven-year-old Ford, our baseball player who wants to go to TCU; Brandon and thirteen-year-old Sawyer will be solidly on the UT side. We’ll have much of Sunday together, and I am relishing the visit in anticipation.

Be kind to each other, my friends. Love not hate. I am struck by the anger with which a man I don’t know replied to a question I asked of someone else on Facebook. Ah, Facebook. It seems to foster anger. Let’s make it foster kind feelings.