Showing posts with label #acolytes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #acolytes. Show all posts

Sunday, February 11, 2018

What happened to that wintry mix?




The Reverend Dr. Russ Peterman, new senior minister of Fort Worth’s University Christian Church, must be feeling a bit of extra blessing today. The morning of his formal installation and acceptance of the call to the church dawned as winter mornings can—cold and damp, with the threat of a wintry mix hanging over us. Just before we left for church, the sky began to spit sleet. But when we emerged from that impressive service, with spectacular music, the sun shone brightly in a clear sky, as if to join the chorus welcoming Dr. Peterman.

Jacob was privileged to be an acolyte this morning. Where I sat I had a clear view of him throughout the service, though I couldn’t get him to look at me, let alone smile. He sat admirably still without fidgeting through what was a very long service and even appeared to be paying attention to the sermon. He said afterward he liked that “old guy” who preached. (We must work on his age sensitivity.) I had to tell the lectern minister afterward that I was not staring at her. It was that darn cute acolyte!

Russ Peterman came to the church in December, a time when there is too much else on the church calendar to schedule an installation. Having it in February provided a bright spot in a dull, gray month. There’s just something about winter.

My dad, a doctor, was also the administrator of the hospital at home. He twisted that old saying, “A green Christmas means a full churchyard,” to be, “A green Christmas means a full hospital.” We didn’t often have a green Christmas in Chicago, but Dad felt personally responsible for the hospital’s daily census, Christmas snow or not. While he never would have wished ill health on anyone, he was acutely aware that the institution’s income depended to some degree, probably large, on the daily census.

Once sitting quietly at home, he said to me, “Judy, go call the hospital and ask what the census is.” I drew the line. I could just hear the guffaws if I, then maybe twelve, called and said prissily, “This is Judy MacBain. Could you tell me the census?”

Winter or not, Sundays are often cooking days for me, and today was no exception. Last night I made salmon cakes for my supper. I’ve been making them all my life but found a new way—instead of whole eggs, use whipped egg whites. I thought it would make the cakes light and fluffy. Problem: I have the mixer, but I couldn’t find the beaters—they must be in the house. So I ended up making cakes the usual way—even forgot to grate the fresh ginger I’d bought. But as I proved today, there’s nothing like a cold salmon patty on rye bread with mayo for lunch. Then I unearthed a bar of dark chocolate with raspberries and ate twice my daily portion. Terrific lunch.

On to dinner. It was one of my cooking triumphs in the cottage, though it strained my facilities to their stretching point. I adjusted a stroganoff recipe to substitute hamburger for tenderloin—a slight price point difference. The recipe served six, and Jordan pointed out that I should have halved it. As it is, if you want leftovers, just call me. But it was really good. Christian baked asparagus, and I fixed a salad. The hardest things about the stroganoff were adjusting to one burner, trying to keep the noodles hot while I reheated the meat, so I could add the sour cream at the last minute, and transferring a huge pot of noodles from hot plate to sink to drain. I can do it, but tonight Jordan helped me. And she did the dishes—which in the cottage means hand-washing. Such a good girl.

Stay warm and have a great week starting tomorrow.

Sunday, January 07, 2018

Finding Joy at Church


Some people go to church for inspiration, others for instruction, meditation, some out of a sense of obligation, and a few, reluctantly. I go because I want to learn how to be a better person in this world we live in today, not so much to learn ancient biblical history. Today I also went because Jacob was an acolyte—he is the cutest acolyte! But what I left the church with was a sense of joy.

One of our associate ministers, Shannon Moore, simply bursts with enthusiasm. When he welcomes the congregation from the chancel steps, you know he means each and every individual. Even his prayers are joyful. At the communion table, he told a story about how as a young boy he’d hidden from his family while they searched every room in the house. When they found him and asked why he was silent, he said, “I thought I was lost.” It was, of course, an invitation not to be lost but to come to the table. And Shannon wore the most wonderful, cheery bright green socks.

Our new minister is a joyful person too. Today was the first time I had a chance to meet him and shake his hand, and when I said, “We’re glad you’re here,” his smile was broad as he replied, “I’m thrilled.” He really meant it. His sermon this morning, based on the Scripture where Jesus, as a young boy, educates the temple scholars, was titled, “Always Wear Clean Underwear.” He talked about the lists that all parents see equipped with, a list that includes “always wear clean underwear” and “never speak to your mother in that tone.” His point was that we are all the beloved children of God.

One poignant moment: at the end of the service, a family of four—mom, dad, and two young girls, joined the congregation. The younger of the girls, probably no more than three, looked very apprehensive as her family went to stand before the congregation. Gradually she backed away until she was back at the transept pew, where she stood watching. Attempts to approach her didn’t work—her parents tried, two ministers tried, a woman in the pew sat down on the floor to talk to her, and, in the most touching moment, her big sister, maybe five years old, came to put her arms around her and try to drag her to their parents. Nothing worked. Those of us who could see this little drama watched with amusement and concern for the obviously frightened child. As soon as the formalities were over, the dad picked her up and carried her in his arms, where she looked quite concerned. It was a perfect follow-up to Shannon's story of being a lost child. We are all lost in some ways.

I carried that sense of joy with me throughout the day. One of the things I look forward to as I get more mobile is being able to be more active in the church again. I once was. When my friend Betty was the organist and music director, I swore every time she had an odd chore to be done, she said, “Judy will do it.”

And a shout-out to neighbors Greg and Jamie: their son, his wife, and infant daughter were the Holy Family in the annual Boar’s Head Festival today. I am sure it was a thrill for them.