Showing posts with label #St. Patrick's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #St. Patrick's Day. Show all posts

Sunday, March 17, 2024

Peace and quiet

 

Sophie at the veterinaray clinic. Note the IV tube.
Ready to come home tomorrow.

I think it was Maya Angelou who said we all need to take an occasional day out. The world, she reminded us, won’t fall apart without you. That’s what I did today—a day out. The Burtons were out all day, celebrating Jordan’s birthday at the Roadhouse, which is supposed to have great burgers. They were up, bright and bushy-tailed early this morning, Jordan is a bright green top with shamrocks dangling from her ears. My bow to St. Patrick tonight is a pale green T-shirt (with a VW bus on the front) and bright green footlets. By rights I should wear orange because my ancestry is Protestant Irish. I’m fairly sure my forebearers, three generations back or more, left Scotland for Northern Ireland. They were Protestant Irish, but I like the myth and legend of the larger Irish culture, the green of St. Patrick if you will. Perhaps W. B. Yeats best summer up Irish culture: Being Irish, he had an abiding sense of tragedy, which sustained him through temporary periods of joy.

Since I would be cooking only for myself, there’s no Irish menu in the cottage tonight. But tomorrow my family will get corned beef, champ (a mashed potato dish with lots of butter and green onions), and Brussel sprouts. Coming up with a green vegetable that’s Irish and my family will eat is hard because everything is cabbage, and they won’t touch it. When Christian asked why the Irish eat so much cabbage, I suggested it is plentiful, cheap, and nutritious. I refrained from adding something to the effect that you can make some wonderful dishes with it. Colcannon is also out—no cooked spinach. I also didn’t tell him that Brussel sprouts, which he likes, could be considered tiny cabbages. Tonight I have made myself a huge batch of pea salad and will eat with it, I think, the sardines in preserved lemon that I would have served to Jean the other night.

I was sad that my happy hour guests cancelled tonight—particularly sad because friend Jaimie burned her hand badly. But that cancellation added to my day of peace and quiet. I had planned to make a couple of appetizers to entertain Greg and Jaimie, but I’ll save them for a reschedule when Jaimie is in a better place.

So this was my day out: I slept really late, with no Sophie to wake me and demand food. I barely had time to read emails before church, which I attended via Zoom in my pajamas. A bit of cottage cheese for brunch, and I applied myself to the last words of Irene in a Ghost Kitchen. I finished it—at least the first draft—and I breathed a huge sigh. Seems like I’ve been writing this mystery forever. It came out at close to 58K words, so if I can pick up another two thousand on editing, it will be a respectable length for a cozy. Tonight I’ll start some notes for a show about Helen Corbitt that Mary and I are to collaborate on. Mary regularly teaches cooking classes for the Silver Frogs, the senior noncredit program at TCU. So she roped me in to provide commentary and background on Corbitt’s life while she demonstrates the recipes. Should be fun, though I am a bit confused on which one of us will say what. I’m sure it will work out, and it’s one of those things I vow not to overthink. Oh yes, I did have a nap in the late afternoon but only dozed—think I satisfied my need for sleep this morning.

The Sophie report is good again. She’s eating, albeit with appetite-stimulating medicine. Today the clinic will take her off her IVs and see how she does on her own, with the goal of bringing her home tomorrow. I have a list of questions for our vet when we see him.

After a week fraught with tension and worry and distractions, I’ve enjoyed my peace and quiet. Talking with a friend recently, I said one reason I didn’t want to move into a retirement community was that I like my privacy. From friends who live in Trinity Terrace I get the sense that even though you can get privacy in your own apartment, it’s easy to be drawn into the constant round of activities. No such temptation in my cottage, and I was completely happy today. But I wouldn’t want to spend every day this way.

 

Sunday, March 17, 2019

Happy St. Patrick’s Day…and a birthday






Jordan with the love of her life
St. Patrick’s Day has always been a high holiday around my house—it’s the birthday of my baby girl, Jordan Elisabeth. This year, she’s . . . well, we won’t go there. For years, ever since she was young, she requested tacos for her birthday party; even as a married mother, she wanted tacos. And Jordan likes to celebrate with a crowd—she loves a party. So tonight, there were about twenty-five folks wishing her well.

But the menu changed. It was a St. Patrick’s Day pot-luck, and there was a bit of everything Irish, from green deviled eggs to shepherd’s pie made with corned beef (gosh, was that good!). I made a Reuben dip—yep, all the ingredients of the classic sandwich in a dip form. Someone brought corned beef and cabbage, and Jordan’s brother—my Jamie—and his Melanie arrived with a platter of tacos and all the fixings. Too many other things to name. A bounteous feast.

I love these parties with her friends because I feel like the queen bee—or else the aging dowager (haven’t quite figured that one out). But I get kisses and hugs from all her friends and most of their kids as they come and go, and I am so grateful to be around younger folks. Some of my friends were included, along with some of the neighbors, so it was a varied group.

In high school, Jordan had two best buddies—Rob Seume and David Barnes. I love that those three are still what they called themselves back then—the three musketeers. So here the three are tonight and at her 2004 wedding. I am tempted to quote poetry, something about age shall not wither nor dampen friendships. These pictures are fourteen years apart and yet don't capture the span of their friendship.




The other high point of my day was going to church with Jacob. He went to the Pastor’s Class (they have a much more high falutin’ name for it these days) at ten and then met me at the valet parking at eleven so we could go to church together. Color me one proud and happy grandmother. I wore the only green top I have, though Jacob insisted it was turquoise, and he offered to show me the green waistband on his underwear, which was his only green. It was fun to see the various shades of green scattered throughout the congregation.

When we got home, I asked if he’d get my walker out for me, and he said, “Naw, I’m going in the house.  See you later, Juju.” Of course, he came around, got the walker, and saw me inside. He has learned from his uncles how to pick on Juju.

Such a full day—no work accomplished, and now I’m sleepy. It’s an early bed time for me tonight.

May the road rise to meet you.

May the wind be always at your back.

May the sun shine warm upon your face.

The rains fall soft on your fields.

            And until we meet again,

May the good Lord hold you in the palm of his hand.
Got to share this last picture. I don't always look this good in pictures. Must be Jordan's loving arms or her influence.