Saturday, February 03, 2024

A food craving satisfied and memories of rodeo days

 

Eating fried chicken in the cottage

For some time, I’ve been craving fried chicken, so tonight we ordered dinner for four from Bonnell’s Curbside meals. During quarantine, when restaurants saw their business diminish and disappear, Fort Worth’s Jon Bonnell found a way to keep his Bonnell’s Fine Cuisine active. He packaged curbside meals for four, priced them reasonably, and sold them literally on the curb by his restaurant each afternoon, Tuesday through Saturday. They were so successful, he has continued the tradition to this day. We have had them a few times—mostly the Beef Stroganoff. Several of the entrees are pasta which isn’t popular here, usually one is shrimp which I can’t eat, and one is smoked chicken and pulled brisket which doesn’t appeal. The Stroganoff though is delicious, and I still want to try the meat loaf. Tonight’s chicken came with mashed potatoes, gravy, green beans, salad, and brownies. And the amount is generous. So craving satisfied.

Jacob almost never ever eats Saturday night dinner with us. This afternoon when I asked if he was joining us, he said, “Probably not. It’s Saturday night, you know.” I replied, “Sometimes in life you have to make choices. We’re having fried chicken.” He said with a grin he’d have to think about that. Somewhat to my surprise, he showed up for supper.

So now I’m full and happy—and waiting until I’m hungry enough to eat the remaining brownie.

We never had fried chicken in my home when I was growing up, which may account for my fascination with it now. I honestly don’t know if my mom ever tried to fry a chicken. (She did teach me early on how to cut up a chicken, something the girls in my family refuse to do—Jordan in particular won’t touch raw poultry, and for some years my function at Thanksgiving and Christmas was to prepare the turkey for roasting. They’ve gotten better now about it.) Not only did Mom not want to fry in all that oil, Dad, the proper Englishman, did not tolerate picking up food in our hands. A sandwich at lunch at the kitchen table was okay but never at the dinner table (we ate with linen tablecloth and napkins every night and no passed food—Dad served the plates as the head of the household; no, we were not rich, just shaped by his Canadian/British background). I have never myself tried to fry chicken, and I find “oven fried” a poor substitute. But tonight I was thinking that what attracts me as much as anything is the slightly peppery seasoning of the coating. I think that’s a southern thing.

Tonight may have been fried chicken night at the cottage, but it is the last night of the Southwestern Exposition and Stock Show, lovingly known in Fort Worth as the stock show and in the past as the “Fat Stock Show.” The powers that be dropped the “Fat” some years ago. Tonight, the owner of the champion steer, a high school girl, is $340,000 richer—I’m no judge but her snow-white steer is one of the most beautiful steers I’ve ever seen. I think a conglomerate usually buys the winner, so it is spared from the slaughterhouse, and the owner is spared that dilemma between emotion and profit.

Rodeo always makes me nostalgic. When my children were little, going to the rodeo was a rite of passage. Each had to wait until they were judged old enough, and then it was one of the highlights of the year. We routinely went with another family for several years and dined on the ribs and sausage offered by Coburn’s Catering, a longtime culinary institution. That family moved away, but then we developed a tradition of all the Alters coming for rodeo—the performance on Friday night, prowling the grounds, especially the Midway Saturday afternoon, and dinner at Joe T.’s Saturday night. It was an annual reunion that I truly looked forward to. Gradually the tradition fell apart—with kids in school, it was hard for families ot get away and parents had other demands. Now, some years Megan comes with a friend, but she didn’t even do that this year. Jordan and Christian have gone several times, with friends, and Jacob has gone at least once. My rodeo days are long over, not just because the arena is not accessible for me but because I’ve joined the ranks of those who don’t want to see the brutality of rodeo, especially the bull riding. Having written a bit about rodeo, I know they take every precaution for man and beast, but it can still be brutal. I don’t want to see anyone or any animal hurt. But it sure does provide some great memories.

Grands at the rodeo, back in the day

 

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