Saturday, June 12, 2021

Boys and rodeo, solitary Saturdays, and my income tax—whooppee!

 


Jacob and two buddies headed for a local, small-town rodeo last night. Christian captured this picture of them, and I couldn’t help but think they didn’t look like rodeo kids. I guess I expected jeans, a western shirt, and a cowboy hat. Jacob has almost never shown any interest in the western side of our local culture, although I am a big fan (and student) of it. And he wasn’t all that enthusiastic today when I asked how it was. His answer was that too many people were crowded into a small arena, and he couldn’t see what was going on.

I was reminded, though, of a book TCU Press published several years ago—Before Texas Changed, by David Murph who is, incidentally, an ordained minister. The book was an account of David’s growing up years in the shadow of TCU, years that encompassed unbelievable high jinks, including attempts to ride the bulls at small rodeos like the one Jacob just attended. Christian tells me not to worry—that is not on Jacob’s horizon.

David Murph, on the other hand, had so many outrageous adventures that when I was editing the book all I could say was that I was glad I was not his mother. He drove a car through the back wall of the family garage, rode freight trains to far east Fort Worth, started at least two accidental fires, got shot in the foot (or was it his buddy)—anyway with one injured boy, two or three of them ran away, after harassing a teacher and causing serious property damage. They made it as far as Oklahoma before they were apprehended. Want to read about life in Texas for a young boy in the Fifties? I cannot recommend this book too highly. You’ll laugh, and you’ll weep, because there is a strong element of the importance of family. And a father who frequently looked at him with a puzzled expression and asked, “Why?”

Yikes, how did a picture of three wonderful boys get me so far off track?

Today was a solitary Saturday, something I’m noticing more and more since the world opened up again. When the Burtons lived across town, I thought nothing of going without seeing them for several days. Now that I live in their back yard, literally, I am a bit disappointed if I don’t see at least Jordan two or three times a day, preferably around happy hour. I sometimes go several days without seeing Christian or Jacob. Today I saw Jordan briefly around mid-day, and that was it.

All was not lost though. Last night Jean took home a pair of pants to hem for me, and this evening she brought them back, cleverly timing her visit for happy hour with the statement, “I’ll drink just a small glass of wine.” And she did, and we got to reminiscing about childhood in the Midwest when houses were heated with coal and mothers did their own canning. Such fun to find someone whose background is so much like mine.

I fixed my favorite solitary dinner—a salmon croquette and a blue cheese/tomato/avocado salad dressed with lemon juice. So good. My mom taught me to make croquettes in log shapes and roll them in crushed crackers. I’ve found all that a nuisance, so I make them in patties and mix the crumbs in. And a recent discovery—Ritz crackers work better than saltines. I love making them from a small can of salmon because I have one for supper and two left over for lunches. Salmon patties make the best sandwiches.

My accountant called this morning. He’d tried twice to submit my return electronically, and the IRs wouldn’t accept it. Nor were they answering their phone. So he decided we’d submit the old-fashioned way. He was on his way to the post office and could he drop by, have me sign, and take it to mail. I said of course and by the by will you take a package I have to mail? He was willing; Jordan was horrified. “You don’t ask your accountant to mail a package for you,” she said. But he repeated that he was perfectly happy to do it, and I reminded her it saved her a trip to the post office. So my taxes are now off my worry list—and so are the books I was sending to a former editor.

Our sunny days continue—a bit hot, more than a bit humid, but not summertime miserable yet. Enjoy while the good weather lasts.

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