With the elevation
of Brett Kavanaugh to a seat on SCOTUS, many are worried about the possible overturn
of Roe vs. Wade. Such a move would rob women of control over their own bodies—and
their lives.
Before Roe vs.
Wade, desperate women often had what were called back-alley abortions,
procedures performed by some unlicensed, probably unqualified practitioner.
Other women induced their own abortions by using coat hangers. Too many died of
sepsis (overwhelming infection) and other traumas.
So it was entirely
inappropriate when a Republican legislator (sorry, can’t remember if he was
state or Federal) made a joke (he thought) by saying, “Get your coat hangers
ready, ladies!” It was a tacit admission that the only thing that will change
about abortion is the safe treatment of women.
I well remember
the era before Roe vs. Wade—and one specific incident which made the whole
thing come home to me. My father was an osteopathic physician and administrator
of a hundred-bed hospital in Chicago. He was also primarily responsible for
getting osteopathic physicians to the right to perform surgery in the State of
Illinois (he himself could have been sued for lancing a boil). It was no
surprise that staff surgeons looked to Dad for advice and counsel.
One day when I was
about twelve, I answered a mid-day phone call to hear a surgeon growl, “Let me
talk to your dad.” With my best phone manners, I assured him Dad wasn’t at
home. “Goddamit, Judy,” he exploded. “I know he’s napping, and I need to talk
to him NOW. Go get him.” I did.
It turned out the
surgeon had been called by a back-alley abortionist who had botched a procedure
and thought his patient was dying. He was begging for help to save her life.
This was a real dilemma for the surgeon: it being against the law to perform an
abortion, he could lose his medical license if he tried to save the patient.
His career, and his chance to help many other patients, would be gone; if he
didn’t’ help, a young woman might die.
As I said, I was
twelve, not tuned in yet to consequences, and I don’t know the outcome of this
situation. But it has remained seared on my mind almost seventy years. I’m not
going to argue the issue of when life begins—conception or birth—but I will
argue to the death that a woman has a right to make her own decisions. I was
never able to conceive, and I am grateful beyond measure for my four adopted
children, but I consider the ability to conceive and carry to term an infant a
gift from God. I am opposed to abortion. But that is me. I can’t make that decision
or anyone else. The subject never came up with any of my girls, and I am
grateful. Had they, in different circumstances, chosen abortion, I would have
been disappointed but supportive. The life of the young woman I know and loved
means more to me than that of the fetus.
If you were that
surgeon, would you have walked away? Or would you have risked your career and
future to save a life?
1 comment:
I would have saved her. Much more important than my career.
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