Saturday, June 16, 2018

Trying to avoid looking at the awful right in front of us


I hate to go too long without saying hello to my blog friends and posting something, anything. But tonight, I’m afraid of lapsing into yet another rant about immigrant children. The problem, the criticism, the agony, the horror are all over Facebook, and I confess I’ve spent too much time on that website. It cheers me to see the outrage because it reminds me that most people are indeed good souls with compassion. On the other hand, I am reminded of what one TV news anchor said—was it Chuck Todd, one of my least favorites?—that Trump takes up all the air in the room, indeed all the air in the country, until we are forced to focus on him. Which is probably part of his plan.

In spite of the cruelty of Trump and Sessions and the heartbreaking situation of all those children, daily life does go on for most of us. We are tonight awaiting the arrival of Megan, my oldest daughter and second child, with Ford, the youngest of her two sons. They were to arrive tomorrow but decided on the spur of the moment to come tonight. Ford and Jacob will spend the week attending TCU basketball camp. In previous summers, they’ve done the baseball camp, but the little wimps decided they didn’t want to be out in the heat. Then again, who can blame them? It got hot early and stayed there this year. Today was 95, but the week ahead is predicted to stay in the lower 90s. I’ll take any bit of relief.

A working weekend, and I got quite a bit done. The Kelly O’Connell novel is at Amazon to have advanced reading copies made. I must be learning because what I submitted met their criteria the first time around. Yippee! And the cookbook is off to the designer, although I’ve already sent a revised version. Today I was making fromage fort (strong cheese) for happy hour tonight and realized that the recipe in the cookbook lacked a key ingredient—garlic. So I added it and added the pasta salad I’d forgotten and sent it off again. I have promised not to do that to the designer any more, so someone will have to help me with restraint. Now about that recipe for Sauce Gribiche . . . . My trouble in proofing the cookbook is that I came across so many things I want to cook.

The newlyweds from last weekend’s wedding came by for a glass of wine tonight7, and Subie was here too so we had a jolly, impromptu party. Lots of re-living the wedding, tales I hadn’t heard or noticed, identification of people. Fun, except when they get together they all talk at once, and I am never sure of the conversation. Still it was lovely to have them here and see them looking so happy. The bride is a thoroughly modern woman—but she couldn’t wait to take her new husband’s last name. Good for her!

Tomorrow, church, yard work, laziness. In the evening, Jordan and Christian are taking the two boys to Concerts in the Park—it’s Christian’s Father’s Day treat. Megan and I will have dinner in the cottage, and I’ll cook scallops with mushrooms in a lemon sauce. Should be a lovely day.

But in the back of my mind, I still see that Palestinian boy, so terrified, and now that two-year-old Honduran girl whose crying picture has gone viral on the net. How can we be so content, enjoying our daily lives, when there is so much misery in the world, some of it so close to home? I need to go to church tomorrow.

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