Friday, September 04, 2020

Fishermen, a little time out, and a good day

 





These happy fishermen are two of my sons and one son-in-law. As you can tell from the Celtic names, Colin and Jamie (picture 1 and 3) are mine. Brandon (second picture) is married to Megan. They were fishing in Colorado with a guide, somewhere southwest of Denver—they were pretty vague about exactly where they were (I got the feeling they didn’t know) but I gather they were sort of near Fairplay. They were doing catch and release so no fish over the campfire for them—I suspect they fixed steak for themselves. Christian, who rounds out the adult males in the family, is not a fisherman and was happily with us at the lake house that weekend.

I had a sinking spell yesterday. During the night, Wednesday night, I would have told you I was sure it was COVID-19 (you know those three a.m. thoughts which are especially vivid these days). By morning, I decided it was a recurrence of a kidney problem I’ve had occasionally—back pain and I could not bear the thought of food. By afternoon it was clear it was a stomach problem. I did some work in the morning but was back in bed by 11:00 a.m. Spent the rest of the day getting up, puttering for an hour or so, and returning to bed. Jordan came out three times to deliver groceries, and I was asleep each time.

Finally she caught me up at about eight, took my temperature three times, and announced, “We are not dealing with a COVID situation, but we have to document for the doctor.” I assured her I wasn’t going to the doctor and would be fine today. Got up again at ten, because my conscience wouldn’t let me sleep without brushing my teeth and then again near midnight when Sophie wanted to go out. And then slept a heavenly deep sleep, albeit with weird dreams (I dream a lot anyway).

The thing that struck me is that especially in these stressful days a little time out is good for each of us. If it takes a stomach bug to do it, so be it. Because I’m introspective and tend to overthink things, I grilled myself on whether or not I was stressed by the country’s situation with pandemic and riots, the never-ending feeling of quarantine, and the heavier than usual workload on my desk. My answer to all that was, “Yes, but . . . .”: Still this morning I was my usual sunny (?) self but hungry.

My good friend Jean came for happy hour tonight. We try to get together once a week to solve the problems of the world—boy, are we good at it. If the world only listened to us! Tonight, though, I tactfully (I hope) kicked her out early because I wanted to catch a 6:30 Zoom program on Scottish seafood sponsored by Central Market. It turned out to be nothing more than a teaser for the cooking class tomorrow, for which I am already registered. Hearty apologies to Jean.

But tomorrow I’ll learn to make a smoked salmon salad with snap peas and a Hebridean salmon with a sauce and a soft-boiled egg. I think I could sell it to the family if I left off the soft-boiled egg. The dessert is a cranachan, a Scottish dessert with raspberries, heavy cream, oatmeal or porridge, and a touch of whisky. Sounds wonderful, but my family doesn’t eat desserts. I’m a bit hamstrung by what they will and won’t eat.

Labor Day weekend! Be careful, everyone—masks, social distancing, no drinking and driving. I sound like an old mother hen, but I guess that’s what I am.

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